STORY | Bhasobha Makoti Uya Lanywa #MarriageBill

I have watched many episodes of Mnakwethu and as a curious person i really love this show because it proves to me that "sometimes" Isthembu is just a horny boy's playground. 

Hosted by Musa Mseleku, Mnakwethu is an emotional reality show that sees married men introducing polygamy, a potential new wife, to their existing spouses. 

Bhasobha Makoti Uya Lanywa!!😅

Last week the department of Home Affairs invited us to a ministerial consultative dialogue hosted by the minister Mr Aoron Motsoaledi in Johannesburg. We were there to discuss the Draft Marriage Bill which is currently open for public comment. 

When it comes to polygamous marriages the bill is a game changer. Polygamy is legal but the bill requires a husband in a marriage who wishes to enter into a further marriage to obtain consent from the first wife or wives, as the case may be. 

Once consent is obtained the husband is required to make an application to the court to approve a written contract which will regulate the future matrimonial property system of his marriage.

The concern we raised with the minister is that consent to take a second or another wife should not be done in the bedroom during pillow talk. Consent should be in writing and it must not be obtained forcefully. When a husband comes with Musa Mseleku and his camera crew he is forcing his wife to consent to his further marriage and such shall not be regarded as Consent under this bill.

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